Don’t you hate it when your boyfriend is one lousy, serial, pesky cheater and he is really good in hiding it?
You have this feeling of him cheating on you, what can you do? Well, you have options. One is for you to stay and have that sense of distrust and suspicion as the days move along. Two is to move along, let him go and find someone who will love and respect you.
If you choose to stay, there are several tell-tale signs that you are with a philanderer douche bag.
Is he always working “overtime”? He suddenly gets all too busy with overtime work, cannot bring you to social events, or stays up an hour later than normal — take a clue and investigate.
His phone is off-limits! And he means it. He brings it everywhere (even to the loo) and you don’t even know the code to open it. He goes berserk when you get hold of his phone and throws a major fight when you try to scan through his messages. Clue!
He demands privacy. His sudden need for privacy will extend beyond the bedroom. He shreds all bank statements, changes his passwords on all of his social media accounts and his phone is regularly on airplane mode. Take a hint, my dear.
He’s horny and in love with himself. Need I say more? A cheating man’s ego is over the roof given that his libido and lust is well satisfied by two (or more) women. If he suddenly pays attention to his physical appearance, like you are looking into a new man you never knew, better start to worry.
You’re crazy! You’re suspicious and you called his attention to it, he instantly goes berserk! His guilt is so pent up that such actions from you triggers a slew of words to come out of his lying mouth. It’s either that or you’re just in an emotionally abusive relationship with a sick bastard.
Unfortunately, evidence about your infidel boyfriend will surely come find its way to you one of this days. If there’s smoke, there is fire. Save yourself from all the emotional turmoil. Stick with your guts and kick him in the balls.